Bedtime Woes - Aren't Just For Newborns & Toddlers!

My kids are great kids but let's face it - they're kids, and although I don't have too many gripes, We do have some struggles..

One being recently they've started this little trend where they will dawdle at bedtime. They will have to pee three times, they'll have to re-brush their teeth because they might have missed a spot! They fight and take their time to tell the tale. It's just always something.

Now? They like to lay down for half an hour or so, then come downstairs for some water, sit at the table sipping on said water. I'm all, hello didn't I just put you to bed? This can happen multiple times a night.

Kyla is the worst for it - she does this every single night. Ava does it usually only when her legs are hurting her. Jordan will come down for a drink, or toilet paper or to tell me something he forgot to tell me after school, multiple times a week. I honestly don't get it. What is so hard about "it's bedtime!"? It can get so frustrating especially when they never have reasons besides "I was thirsty" okay well we have mini cups in the bathroom for that, and it doesn't take them hours and multiple trips for that one drink. So what is truly going on?

They are tired. Their behaviour is a fine indicator of that. We've tried later bedtimes, earlier bedtimes.. Doesn't work. They all with the exception of Jordan have night lights or some form of one - the girls have flower lamps that change colour for when they sleep. The boys have a flashing sign lighting up their room that says "ROCK!".. All leave their bedroom doors open a bit, with the upstairs bathroom light on - So I know it's not that. I don't think it's a separation thing; or Could it be?

They have bedtime snacks, plus a few sips of a drink before heading up to brush their teeth, go pee and we read bedtime stories. What is it in those thirty minutes after they've been given kisses and tucked in do they do that makes them so thirsty they need a drink? their bladder so full they MUST PEE NOW? Or there is something left unsaid they must say RIGHT NOW? Clueless mom here because I don't get it.

Last night Kyla came down three hours after our bedtime routine, she got a drink. . . Sat on the floor staring at the baby, not even saying a word. I asked her what she's doing? She said "getting a drink." This was well after 10 o'clock at night. Way past bedtime, and not time to be up messing around..

Bedtime is mama's time to relax, get some work done, write a blog...and generally just have some quiet "me" time. But this is becoming a habit. It's starting to feel like I don't ever get some time to myself, and that is a must for any parent... But, more than that - I wan't to get to the bottom of what is going on. She says nothing, and never has any reasons or excuses besides being thirsty. But I'm not really buying it...

My kids are brutal in the am if they don't get adequate sleep so - I need to nip this in the bud pronto...... I just don't know what is going on. Has anyone else dealt with this before? I can't be the only one....

Guest Blog: Diaper Liners vs Diaper Sprayer

Hello to all you wonderful readers it's Heidi blogging for you on this freezing Wednesday.

Today I am going to discuss - Diaper liners vs Diaper Sprayer

In our home we use AppleCheeks cloth diapers exclusively. They make phenomenal products that I am proud to use on my son. It wasn't until a few months ago I decided to give their diaper liners a go. I knew without a doubt that they would be a great product with superior quality, just like everything else they produce. I have always been a diaper sprayer kinda girl so this was a whole new ball game for me. After hearing more and more, how spraying your diapers can have significant wear and tear, my mind was made up. There was no way I wanted my precious stash being ruined all because of what? Water? I don't think so.

I immediately set off to buy some liners, and can I say how glad I am. This has made cloth diapering with AppleCheeks even more user friendly, if that's even possible. My hubby was never a fan of spraying. He always made a huge mess and lets face it, you're dealing with poop and well, it's kinda gross to know it's spraying who knows where. You just lay the liner inside of your diaper cover, snap and away you go. Once the child poops you pop in the toilet, flush and your cover and insert easily goes in your storage sac. The liners come in a roll of 100 and if they aren't soiled they can be rinsed off and used again once dry.

I seriously cannot believe it took me 17 months to discover the beauty of these liners. I went from being a spray only mama to a complete disposable liner advocate. If anyone is on the fence about using a sprayer or disposable liners, take my advice and buy the liners. They are so much easier, so much cleaner and your husband might thank you like mine did. ;)

Thank you AppleCheeks yet again, for another amazing product that surpassed my expectations.

Do you cloth diaper? Do you spray or use liner?

Thanks so much for reading, have a wonderful day. Heidi <3

Review & Flash Giveaway: Kael&Kaed Genuine Baltic Amber

"Baltic amber is not a “stone” it is fossilized natural tree resin - about 40 million years old! As it warms against your body’s natural temperature, it releases healing oils containing succinic acid, which are absorbed into the skin and into the blood stream."

I was so excited when I found out I was pregnant for #5 because I could finally start using those cute adorable necklaces I would see every baby on Social Media wearing! Little did I know, it would be a little bit of a job to find out which worked for us!

I tried a few different shops for Amber but nothing seemed to work. I did get one that was multi colored, and polished that worked for us, but it quickly became too small and by that time I had heard that they started using fake amber, so I wanted to find somewhere I could trust and know that my $20 wasn't going to waste.

Then I came across Kael&Kead in a facebook group. A bunch of people I knew were ordering so I thought I'd look into it. I ordered a polished Amber Teething necklace. It came and I loved it, so did Jackson. It worked like a charm. Not once did that child cry from teething pain, or any other pain - and I contribute the fact he hasn't ever had a UTI to Amber because of all his kidney issues he was born with (I will post about that at a later date) I am really, really impressed.

"This Baltic amber jewelry comes from Lithuania, one of the main sources of Baltic amber in the world. Baltic Amber is known to: Reduce inflammation of the throat, ear & stomach. Fight irritations, infections and respiratory diseases. Dramatically improves the body’s immunity – strengthens and boosts the bodys natural healing ability and immune system. Completely non-invasive remedy for side-effects associated with teething such as swollen gums, diaper rash, earache etc. Natural analgesic that will calm your child."

About three weeks ago Justin started to drool.. A LOT. He would try to gnaw on our hands, and put every single thing into his mouth. So I knew it was time. Jackson took his necklace off a few weeks ago, he just thought it was hilarious to undo his all the time. So, it was time to come off for him. I tried his on Justin and wouldn't you know it - he's too chubby for it. I had to order him a 13"... Which was hilarious for us because we know Jackson is small, and Justin is pretty chubby but the difference is hilarious. 

I went immediately to Tasha to order, and when it arrived I had a very very happy guy on my hands...

 

The top necklace is the one I had for Jackson, the bottom our new one for Justin. As you can see one is polished (top) and the other is not (bottom) it is a raw Amber in Honey and Lemon, mixed. It's gorgeous... And since he has had it on we've had no more drool, and although he isn't nearly as fussy I can't really say if it's changed his fussiness because in all honesty, he cries if he's not being held even now -- but before he would cry regardless and try putting our hands and everything in his mouth, this has stopped too! So, I know some people wonder if these truly do work - I guess that's up to you to find out. It does for us, and we are extremely happy with our Kael&Kaed Baltic Amber. She ships quickly, and will answer any questions you have in a timely, and honest manner. She even has the cutest packaging, she's a real doll to work with.

I did test both of these necklaces out doing the salt water test, which you can google online to find out how to test if it is real or fake. There's a few different ones. I didn't test the one for the giveaway, as it came packaged, it's stayed that way which you can see below. It is absolutely stunning.

As with any product, exercise caution while using. My baby(ies) are and were never left alone while they have their necklaces on.

Now on to the Flash Giveaway. I have so many great wonderful products coming up for review and giveaway, but I didn't want to wait with this one because I felt the need to give tonight so here it is. This giveaway will run until Thursday at 11:59pm... So enter now, and often (tweet options) if you do all required of you below you can get as many as 35 entries and chances to win! Easy and Simple!

BUT WAIT.. What if you don't win and want to get some Amber ANYWAY?? Well, Tasha has KINDLY sent in this 10% off code for you Six Time Mommy Readers: 10% off Baltic Amber purchases until Feb 1st: 6TIME10OFF in her shop. HOW AMAZING is that!! Thanks Tasha! :)

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1 (one) lucky reader will win 1 (one) Kael&Kaed 13" Raw Baltic Amber Teething Necklace in this gorgeous mix of light and dark amber (pictured in the very first photo, as well as below) - handmade especially for kael&kaed in Lithuania - the land of the BALTIC AMBER... the size approx. 13" individually knotted. It will arrive to you from me packaged in this gorgeous organza gift bag, with a kael&kaed business card!

 

  

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Giveaway open to US and CANADIAN residents. You will recieve 1 (one) Baltic Amber teething necklace. Prize will be mailed directly from Six Time Mommy. You have 24 hours from prize announcement  to claim your prize before a new winner will be chosen instead. Giveaway is open from January 28-January 30 at midnight, winner will be chosen and posted/emailed the afternoon of January 30th. Good luck!

Why Justin Bieber isn't a Role Model...

Back in December 2012 I won two tickets to go see Justin Bieber during his Believe Tour. I won them on the radio, and I was so excited because my daughter Kyla who was then 6 loved Justin and I won't lie I do too! I was stoked. The concert wasn't until July 2013 a few days before my Birthday but we both couldn't wait.

The concert was amazing. We both danced our behinds off, and sang along to every single song. It was a great, great show!

Now its January 2014 and I'm sure everyone has seen the stories, articles and clips of things Mr. Bieber has been up to lately. It would be a lie to say that I wasn't disappointed. I am, I truly am but he's human and 19.

An excuse? Not at all, but what can I do? Nothing. I can tell you what else I won't do. I won't write negative comments about him all over the facebook stories, twitter feeds or instagram photos I see of him. I won't call him names, or boycott his music. 

Why you ask? Simple: I'm not a bully.

My children have dealt with bullies the last two years on and off at their school and to me reading the articles online and comments with hateful words, calling someone names celebrity or not is uncalled for and bullying. Would you want someone to do that to your son or daughter? No, of course not. Why do it to celebrities then? They are human, I don't care if they "put themselves in the spotlight, they chose that life" it doesn't matter. Every single day we put our lives on the internet, eventually our sons and daughters will be on the internet too - will it be okay for people to do to them? No, most definitely not.

I understand some of the things he has done are illegal, and I'm not trying to downplay that or say it doesn't matter - it does, but that's between him and the law. Not anyone else.

Over the course of the last few days I've seen so many comments that seriously as a mother, break my heart to see. Not just because it's Justin Bieber, but if I saw them written about anyone - it's crushing. Yes, I am still a fan, yes so is my daughter. Of course I will let her listen to his music still... Why wouldn't I?  Well, the question I keep getting about this very topic, also comes with these words that I need to address:

"He's a terrible role model to kids!"

Let me say this simply; he isn't a role model. My friend Sioux said it best before all of this started and how she said it really stuck with me.. so, I will quote her exact words:

"it's not his job to be a role model for my kids. That's MY job"

And to that I say AMEN. It is NOT Justin Bieber's job to be a role model for ANY KID.. That is us, as the parent's job. 

No it isn't Britney Spears, Lindsay Lohan, Reese Witherspoon, Miley Cryus or even Lady Gaga's job to be a role model. PERIOD. Sure, kids may "Look up" to these talent's but it's our jobs as parents to do our very best as parents, set good examples and teach them right from wrong. Not these celebrities. I absolutely loved Backstreet Boys when I was younger (who am I kidding? I STILL do!) but I never thought of them as role models. I loved that Marilyn Manson song "Beautiful People" when I was 13, but I didn't think of him as a role model either... My role models always were, and always will be my mom and sister. I was obsessed with the Backstreet Boys too it was kind of sad now that I look back at it, but what can ya do. I lived, and I'm no worse for it. My mom and sister were my true heros, and no celebrity could ever lead me down a path that I wasn't already leading down anyways. It would have been my mom's job to make sure she taught me well enough to know right from wrong and steer me in the right direction.

Everyone has opinions, and everyone is entitled to them, even the negative. But, My point here is what Justin does, Justin will have to answer for in his life. If he does illegal things, he will deal with that one way or another. If he wants to continue on down the path he is going - he will. Writing nasty things about him online, or saying nasty things about him on tv won't change that. Yes, he needs help. I hope he gets the help he desperately deserves. But he doesn't need to be victim to the endless bullying and disgusting things he's being subjected to in the media and online. It isn't right -- for anyone, as a human being. But the stories, the comments, the remarks? that just isn't right. If your only excuse is that he's horrible for kids, and is no role model - he isn't. Plain and Simple.

And yes, I know not every child has a wonderful home life, I get that. So maybe they aren't headed down the right path to begin with and JB's actions speak volumes to them - and they think it's okay and want to be "just like him" I get that too. Sadly, only we can be in control of us, and our children. But, Maybe instead of such hateful, nasty remarks - words of encouragement and strength would be better suited... I don't know, I guess the overprotective mother in me think's maybe, just maybe that may be a little bit more constructive.

Are My Kids Missing Out?

I overheard a mom talking at the school today and it really got me thinking. She said "We don't have a minute to do anything after school, we get home have dinner in a rush and are out the door 7 nights a week!"

It made me go, huh? I'd be utterly exhausted!

I couldn't imagine being so busy - We have too much stuff going on as it is with homework, extra reading stuff to get Kyla caught up with her levels of reading.. not to mention Jordan is in grade 5 and has nightly homework, Ava gets sheets she has to do 1 a night and Jayden, even in Junior Kindergarten has homework - yep! in JK!  I'm just exhausted thinking about it all!

She went on to say she has one kid in five different activities, and the other in four. I guess my kids just aren't that lucky because the only time we put them in anything is in the summertime.

It's not that we don't want to, but it would be nearly impossible for us. We don't drive, either one of us and we don't have a vehicle. We walk, take the subway or bus/street car everywhere! Could you imagine how much that would end up costing us? Plus, We have set schedules and most of the time my husband is at work it's me carting the kids everywhere. It just isn't likely during the school year.

My kids are gone from 830a-320p every single day of the week as it is, I'd like to spend time with them. Last night we had family movie night and watched "Cloudy with a chance of meatballs 2" because today is a PA day so they stayed up a bit later - listening to them laugh, and coo over a cute little alive Strawberry was priceless to me. I wouldn't change these moments for anything.

Sure, it's amazing to have kids in after school and weekend activities I'm not knocking that at all, I just couldn't imagine being busy 7 nights a week, I barely get to bed before 1a on a good day as it is..

When would the kids do their homework? What time would they possibly go to bed at? I guess that family has it under control though, so kudos to them. That is something I look up to - I'm just not sure I could do it!

It also makes me wonder if my kids are missing out on something? I never did anything as a kid. Notta. I played outside after school, went right back out after dinner until dark which was bath and then bedtime.  I thought that was the most incredible ever. I had a great childhood I think. During the school year I think we are good with keeping things the way they are. We get home from school, the kids do homework or play if there is no homework, we have dinner, kids have some tv time while I tidy up after dinner and get the dishes into the dish washer. Then we have reading, I read with all the kids every night..10 minutes each kid, then it's baths on bath night, and bed by 7-715p every night for all kids under 8. 9p for the 10 year old, which also gets earlier depending on his mood most nights. So I'm just not sure when we'd fit something else in...

Last summer all my kids were in swimming lessons - all five of them. Two of which I went to classes with and had to be in the water with them, it was awesome - I was big and pregnant too. It was so much fun. This summer we haven't quite figured out if they want to do swimming again or maybe get them into something else. I guess we will think about it closer to that time. 

 

What do your after school routines look like? Do you have your kids in any after school activities? Tell us about them!

Baby Shusher: Review And Giveaway!

 

FEATURES:

• Safely stop baby from crying with rhythmic "shush" sound
• Timer options - choose either 15 or 30 minutes of continuous shushing
• User adjustable volume dial

"The Baby Shusher is a revolutionary new tool for parents using an ancient but doctor-tested and approved technique to help soothe your fussy baby and get some much-needed sleep (for both you and baby)." 

 

I was extremely excited when asked if I wanted to review the Baby Shusher. I have the app and I love it. I wanted to try the actual product instead of the app for two reasons. 

One being I'm on an awful cellular network, my data gets eaten up so quickly even when on wifi we've had nothing but issues with them. Two being I use my phone 24/7 if an e-mail comes in, a call or emergencies and the Baby Shusher is something I need frequently with my little one! So, I jumped at the chance and said yes!

When I received the box in the mail I was impressed with how small it was. I was worried it may be a bit big, which would make my 2 year old and 4 year old probably a bit more curious about it and try to take it every time I had it out for the baby - but it's small and the simple look of it doesn't make it a distracting toy to either the baby or older kids.

The best part of all? It requires two AA batteries - but they are included! This was a major plus for me, as I usually don't have batteries on hand so I was able to use this right away! It also comes with removable strap!

Justin has been very fussy lately if not held basically 24/7 and with 5 other kids this just isn't always an option. So, when I got the Baby Shusher in the mail surprise! I was holding him trying to get him to sleep. We got it out of the box, put him in his bouncer chair which he usually only sits in for a few minutes at a time if I'm helping another child with something and I just have to put him down for a minute. We put the baby shusher on, and within 3 minutes he was fast asleep! I was in awe, so I snapped this video of it in action to share with my followers on Instagram...

 

We had the speaker pointed down simply for the video, just to be able to see what it is.. Usually it should be pointed up! 

Not only does it shhhhh a baby to sleep very calmly, it also has volume control to have it as high as you want it, or as low. It also has a timer for 15 minutes and 30 minutes. As you could see he only needed it about 3, but we left it on for 15 and let it go off on it's own.

It's very small, not heavy and fits perfectly in a diaper bag too. We took it on our walk to/from school the other day and he slept the whole walk there and back, which in total is a half an hour. He continued to snooze when we got home for another 15 minutes and was up, happy as a clam. Like the box says; it can be used anywhere!

 When he wakes up from his naps, he even loves to hold it and well, eat it apparently.. Which is okay because its BPA free!

The Baby Shusher is called the "Sleep Miracle" and I now see why. During the day when all the kids would be home from school Justin would nap 20 minutes here and there before we got it, but now he can get full naps lasting 2 hours or more some times. We haven't had to use it at bed time yet, but we've had it on at night for our 2 year old who tends to wake up when we go to bed and have a hard time falling back asleep - it worked for him too!

The Baby Shusher isn't meant to replace mom and dad's loving arms. But sometimes, mom and dad need to be able to get things done around the house, or with other children which sometimes can't be done while babywearing so the this is the perfect solution!

I would most definitely recommend a Baby Shusher to anyone! Not only for how small, and fabulous the product is but just for the simple fact it works. 

You can find a list of retailers across North America, here.

You can purchase directly from Baby Shusher, here.

You can find them on social media, here: facebook, instagram, twitter.

You can read all the FAQ, here.

And you can win one, below:)

The kind folks at Baby Shusher have offered to giveaway one of these amazing Sleep Miracles to one lucky winner, enter below!

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Disclosure: This is a sponsored post. I was given this product complimentary to review. However all opinions and views expressed are mine and 100% true. 

 Giveaway open to US and CANADIAN residents. You will recieve 1 (one) Baby Shusher. Prize will be mailed directly from Baby Shusher. You have 24 hours from prize announcement  to claim your prize before a new winner will be chosen instead. Giveaway is open from January 22-January 29 at midnight, winner will be chosen and posted/emailed the afternoon of January 29th . Good luck!

Should Your Kids Have a Say?

When it comes to planning on having more children - do your older children get a say? Do you get their feelings on the subject before you start that journey?

My last six pregnancies I never discussed it with my kids before hand. I didn't even tell them until after 6/8 weeks of being pregnant. They were all thrilled and no one had any hard feelings, at least that they told us. The excitement for Justin was overwhelming. They all wanted to be involved with the pregnancy - going to ultrasounds, helping pick out a name, wanting to come to doctors appointments and most of all they wanted something fun for the gender reveal... 

It wasn't until nearing the end of my pregnancy when I set up having my tubes tied did I even think of having more babies. More? I know, nuts right?

Well, here you need to sign papers which have to be sent off for approval to have your tubes tied. Why, I have no idea. It shouldn't be so complicated since it's our bodies, we should be able to do as we wish when it comes to tubes but alas it is what it is. When I went in for my 6 week post-partum check up I was told my surgery was approved. I could be scheduled anytime I wanted, what did I want to do? I was terrified. Not because its a surgery, but because I'm 28 years old and yes, I have six kids but what if I did end up wanting more down the line? Having my tubes tied to me was the end all be all. So I decided to wait. I was told that is fine, my name has now been approved so I could do it anytime I wish. I just had to let them know within 2 months if I wanted it sooner rather than later so I could be removed from the OR list, and give someone else the spot - but my name would still be approved for any time in the future.

I'm still waiting. I'm not emotionally ready to make a huge life decision like that, yet.

I still don't know what I want to do. A few weeks ago I was talking to Justin while holding him saying "I could have more babies if they were just like you you!" because he is such a wonderful baby, and My daughter Ava piped up and said "I don't want anymore babies!" I asked her why, and she shrugged... So, I asked again and she said "Because it would probably be a girl, have another boy not a girl!" I giggled, and if you read my post below you'd know why. I then said I wasn't planning on anymore, and she got upset! "I love brothers! I want another baby brother!"

Right then is when I decided, if my heart ever desired anymore I would get all my kids together and ask their opinions first. It's a big deal. I never realized it before, but it is. It's life changing not just for me and my husband, but for our kids as well. I can't believe I never did in the past, and I'm a little disappointed in myself for not.... It's so important, and I completely overlooked it unintentionally, but I still did.

I of course had to explain to Ava I can't choose what the baby would be gender-wise. That there would be a possibility of having another girl. She kind of looked at me puzzled. Another time for that one for sure. I can't believe she wouldn't want a little girl to put dresses on and bows in her hair, but I get it.

At this point and time I have absolutely no plans to have anymore children, but I don't want that to ever NOT be an option. Who knows how I'll feel 5-10 years from now. I don't know, but I do know going ahead with a surgery would be it for me so right now I'm waiting. 

So my question to you is, if you have children did you talk to them before deciding to have more? if not, would you? Would their opinion change your mind?

Raising Daughters

I'm the first one to admit it isn't always easy being a mom to six kids - two of which are girls.

My girls are ten months apart. One being born in October 2006 the other August 2007. It doesn't put them in the same grade at school or class, but it puts them extremely close in age which often makes life very interesting.

My girls couldn't be more different. Kyla is very shy and extremely sensitive. Ava is shy and very outspoken. Both are extremely loving, kind and generous little girls. Both also have very strong personalities which isn't a bad thing at all!

I'm not sure if it's because they are so close in age, or because they are sisters (because my boys sure don't do this) but they butt heads a lot. One minute they are the best of friends, the next they are hating each other, calling each other names and getting another sibling to gang up on the other. It's something I have never dealt with. So, It's most definitely a learning experience for me.

Last year was really extremely difficult with my girls. We had to make big changes where bedrooms were concerned. They had shared a bedroom since Ava was 18 months old, but last summer we had to give them both their own rooms and have 2 of the boys share the bigger room because it was impossible to have any sleep at night, to get them to learn responsibilities where toys, books, clothes anything was concerned. Their room was a complete wreck constantly. They'd keep each other up all night, every night. It was awful. It made days really long, and no one was happy. I was not getting any sleep either having to deal with them, so it was starting to take a toll on me too - which is why on a kwim I switched all bedrooms around.

Now, I'm happy to say everyone gets a full nights rest, the kids seem much happier and they get along much better, in fact probably better than they have in years.

Maybe they just needed some space from each other, to grow and be the individuals they are. I'm not sure, but all that matters is everyone is happy.

If I think back to when I was younger my mom and I would butt heads more than I care to admit. While my brothers and my mom had a decent relationship (not always so, but that's family!) I think it just comes with the territory that boys are often "mama's boys" and are closer to their mothers, Girls sometimes tend to get babied by their moms because we know what it's like to be a young girl. We've been there, done that... So we tend to be a bit harder on girls then we do the boys. If we realize we are doing it, I'm not sure.. But this in turn can push some girls away. Which I do not want for my girls, at all. I want the kind of relationship with my girls I missed out on with my mom when she passed away when I was 16.  I'm trying to really make an effort to ensure I don't so much as baby my girls, but help them along in life by being honest, sharing my experiences and not being too overly protective while being protective because they are still my babies and always will be, if that makes any sense?

I think I've been rather fair thus far, and I treat everyone equally. I love all my kids the same, but I do find my girls can be a bit more emotional (hello, girls!) so they tend to take things more to heart than the boys do. Five minutes after dealing with an issue with my boys, they love me and want hugs and kisses, all is forgotten - the girls, can hold a grudge for days! They can be fine, but a few days go by and they bring it up again. I remember what it's like though, and I can say for sure I was the exact same way. It wasn't that long ago for me you know, so I remember quite well! They think that if they do something wrong it's the end of the world, whereas the boys don't really care and are over it within minutes. It's for sure opened my eyes to the fact boys may be a bit easier than girls to raise. But I am most definitely up for this challenge and I am looking forward to it.

My girls may only be six and seven right now, but I think it's these early years that really count and make them into who they turn out to be as teens, young adults and mature women. I think these years are extremely important and I want to make sure I'm doing the best I can with my girls.

Anyone who has been through it, or is going through the same things as me.. feel free to comment. Words of advice or encouragement is extremely well received, and I look forward to anything anyone has to offer along my journey raising daughters.

Boba 4G Giveaway!

Hope everyone is having a wonderful Friday evening! I've just got the kids tucked into bed so I am finally able to get this giveaway up and running. First though I'd like to draw attention to the new design! I absolutely love it, so it will be sticking around for a while. I'll be adding new things, and updating things a lot so don't be shy... Come visit frequently!

Okay, now on to what everyone has been waiting for! I absolutely adore this carrier. I've been using my 4G ever since the day I got it, sometimes multiple times a day! Here you guys go.. The Boba 4G Giveaway! Which is for ONE Boba 4g that you get to choose which color or print you would like... The print pictured above is TWEET. I'm so sorry to all Canadian's unfortunately this one is only for USA Residents. BUT I have something special coming up for you Canadian's as well soon so stay tuned...

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Giveaway open to US residents only. You will recieve 1 (one) Boba 4G in your choice of size and color. Prize will be mailed directly from Boba. You have 24 hours from prize announcement to claim your prize before a new winner will be chosen instead. Giveaway is open from January 17-January 25 at midnight, winner will be chosen and posted & emailed the afternoon of January 25th . Good luck!

Guest Blog: Community Shared Agriculture/CSA

Hi everyone, it's Heidi on this wonderful Wednesday. For my guest blog today want to discuss...

Community Shared Agriculture Or CSA - is a system of growing and distributing organic produce that restores the link between the farmers and city dwellers.

What is a share? “A Share” is the term we use for the box of fresh, certified organic produce you will receive, weekly or biweekly.

Yesterday I signed up to take part in this wonderful opportunity. I have been looking into buying local organic produce this way for quite some time but never have for whatever reason. A few weeks back I received an email from the local farm who organizes and takes care of everything. I had completely forgotten abut the shares, so I was grateful for the email. After receiving  the email, I knew that this was definitely something to further investigate. Their website is very user friendly and provides so much useful information.

After discussing with my hubby and deciding if this was the financially practical way to go, we both said yes. It really is a great way to purchase amazingly fresh, local, organic produce. We are supporting our local farmers, while knowing exactly where our food is coming from. To me that is a great feeling. The fact that it is no more expensive then me going to the supermarket is the cherry on top.

Our first delivery is set to arrive next Tuesday. I cant wait to see what will be included. I know this is going to force us to cook with things that I would never even think to try let alone buy at the supermarket. It's definitely going to make us get more creative with our cooking, but that could be a good thing right? Since trying to eat more of a paleo diet we have incorporated way more vegetables into our lifestyle. I think we are going to love this.

"It’s about more than just vegetables. It’s about supporting your local economy and local farm families."

Thanks so much for reading. Heidi <3

Keep your eyes peeled on the blog, because Jeanine has a wonderful giveaway coming up from Boba!!!

Review: Babywearing in a Boba 4G!

"The Boba Carrier 4G includes more than a dozen features making this carrier truly one of a kind!"

If you are a fan of my Facebook page...you heard this news already, but for those who don't know.. I am a brand new Boba Ambassador. This is most incredible to me because Boba has been my favorite carrier for the last 2 years.  I've tried most carriers on the market right now, and none live up to Boba in my eyes. The fit is perfect for me, and my babies seem to really love being in them too.

I've been using my Boba 2G since I discovered it 2 years ago, but when I became a Boba ambassador I was given the chance to have a Boba 4G.. So of course, I chose the 4G in the Tweet Pattern! How cute is this?

 

 Justin absolutely loves being held. I can barely get anything done without having to hold him so this carrier got a lot of use out of it this weekend while I was able to get household chores done, and tend to all the other kids.

First things first - It has the same great feel as the Boba 2G I have, and is still just as lightweight and comfortable. I can't rave any more about how the fit is with the Boba. It's not big or bulky, and it doesn't fit too far down on my waist where other carriers do and make wearing uncomfortable. It fits just right, and doesn't need any adjusting once on. Justin is only 14lbs so I left the infant insert in it which is just a little pillow - pure genius - He was loving the fact he could see everything and be comfortable. 

The infant insert snaps in, and if you don't need it you can unsnap and away you go..

It really didn't bother my back either. Usually babywearing can take a toll on my back with my wrap, but because this is a structured carrier, it has full support and is extremely comfortable to wear. As you can see above, baby loved it too.

It comes with a hood, and a huge plus to me - POCKETS! for carrying things like a cell phone, money/debit cards, anything small you may need to carry on you. The 4G also comes with detachable foot stirrups for an older child, to be carried in complete comfort.

It was very easy to put on by myself. I find sometimes carriers need an extra person to help get them on (maybe that's just me?) but I didn't need any help getting this Boba on or off...

Not only is it perfect for my height, and body it also was a huge hit for daddy. He wore it while he chopped up potatoes in the kitchen and said it was extremely comfortable and wasn't as heavy or bulky as others.

  

For reference my hubby is 6'2" and he really enjoyed wearing the baby in it. I really can't say enough good things about the Boba, and I've now become completely smitten with the 4G.

If you are looking for a good sturdy, lightweight carrier I strongly suggest the Boba 4G. It comes in some great prints, and beautiful solid colors. Prices range from: $125-$148. A 4G Plus: You don't have to purchase an infant insert separately. It comes with the carrier.

 

As previously mentioned - The Boba 4G has 12 features, making it one of a kind:

1. Removable sleeping hood
2. Comfortably fits heights 5'0" - 6'3"
3. Waistband range: 25" - 58"
4. Additional adjustment for easier fit breastfeeding
5. Removable foot straps
6. Elastic bands neatly roll up straps
7. Shoulder strap holders keep purse in place
8. Easily adjustable chest strap
9. Uniquely designed to "hug" your child
10. Includes Integrated Infant Insert
11. Body of carrier rises 2"-3" higher than other brands
12. Multiple pockets for on-the-go storage

  "The carrier can be used from 7-45lbs. Our ergonomic design, foot straps, and multiple adjustments make this carrier the perfect fit for your entire family."

Disclosure: This is a compensated sponsored post. I am a Boba ambassador. 

However all opinions and views expressed are mine and 100% true.   

Is Cloth Diapering for you?

Cloth Diapering has recently become what some would call a "trend"... but is it for you?

Cloth Diapering has really changed my life. Not only have we saved hundreds of dollars not having to buy disposables all the time and not putting out extra bags of trash on garbage day.. We have also not had to battle more than 2 rashes ever which were due to sickness, and we've never experienced leaks or blow outs even though we've cloth diapered 3 boys now.

Our electricity or water bills haven't gone up dramatically either, to be honest there wasn't much of a change as we are doing laundry all the time anyway having 8 people in the house. It's 1 extra load a week. I don't use the dryer, so that also helps keep things low...

Do you think cloth diapering is gross? Do you think you really couldn't do it? Sure, it's not for everyone - but the only reason it's not is because you don't think you can do it! Everyone can do it, it's just a matter of wanting to and making that switch! Sometimes the initial cost upfront can scare people, but I promise you it's not that bad... You can start buying a little at a time and in the end, you save a ton. Not only do you save but you don't have to fear running out in the middle of the night, or in the middle of a storm. You never run out!

I get questions all the time about cloth diapering, so much so I started writing them down. I've decided now is as good a time as any to post them and answer them too!

• How do you dry your diapers if its snowing or freezing cold outside? - Simple, I hang them or lay them flat to dry inside. I only put them out in the summer time before 10a to hang for a few minutes, then I take them down anyways so this is no different. As long as you don't hang or lay your diapers near a heat source they should be fine, and dry rather quickly.

• How do you cloth diaper two kids, isn't that a tremendous amount of laundry? - It's not. I do diaper laundry every 3rd day. I have enough diapers for longer than that, but leaving them to sit too long isn't good for them and can cause them to get pretty stinky. Both boys diapers can go in the same load so that doesn't make extra loads either.

• Do you have to touch the poop? - Do you touch the poop with disposables? No! It's the same as with cloth. You never touch the poop, and if that's what you are worried about there is even disposable liners that you can inside the diapers for easy clean up by dumping soils into the toilet, and flushing it all away.

• Don't they smell? - The opposite actually. I can't ever tell if one of the boys has popped with smell. I always just have to check because I never smell anything when they've pooped in cloth. Unlike disposables when I could smell it a room away :x

• How do I know what detergent to use? There's so many conflicting answers?: The easiest answer would be again to research and do some testing. How can you truly know which detergent works for you if you don't try? I think I tried 3 different cloth diaper detergents before settling on a 4th which I used successfully for almost 2 years before switching to a mainstream "free and clear" detergent. Some detergents can become pricey if you can only find them online. If you can find someone you know to lend you a small sample to try for a few washes, that is always a good idea that way you can see for sure before purchasing. My only suggestion? Don't buy in bulk until you know which detergent will suit your washer, wash routine, baby's bottom and your diapers.

• Aren't they too much work? I don't have time! - They aren't too much work at all. If I can do it with 6 kids, you can too! But if you don't want to that's fine!It can be intimidating, and scary for some! For me - I put them in the washer for a rinse, click buttons to start a wash, add soap and walk away. Click more buttons for a final rinse, then hang them! I didn't think I would have the time either when I was thinking about making the switch when pregnant for baby #5, but I decided to take the whole half an hour it all adds up to when the kids were in bed for the night and I was having my tea reading a book or watch tv. Once a week isn't much for the money saved, and to have fluffy cloth on those cute little bum cheeks.

• How do I know what to use? There's so many brands and Types? - Research. I had to do tons of research and even then I chose completely wrong for me when I started. I was so lucky to have found AppleCheeks 2 years ago, ever since then it's been easy and smooth for us. I'd suggest looking online, reading reviews, and even going into diaper stores to see and feel the diapers. Often times some retailers do offer test programs at a low cost which gives you a few brands to try and at the end the option to keep the diapers you find work best for you. I use pocket diapers, which are the most like disposables. I wash them, stuff them and put them away so when we need them we just grab and go!

• The cost can be a lot at first, how is that saving money?  - The cost upfront can be difficult, I started buying a few at a time and eventually ended up with a huge gorgeous stash. I also started buying on FSOT pages on facebook as well as new from online stores. The cost also depends on what brand and type you choose. I happened to find a brand that not only holds their value on normal line up colors, but also has an amazing re-sale value on discontinued colours that they no longer sell. You can make some cost back by re-selling basically any brand of diapers... Different brands vary with how much you will get back though. You just have to think of it as an investment. A wise investment. One that over the course of your diapering journey can save you greatly. 

 Cloth diapering has really been wonderful for us. My husband was on board from the get go, he even washes them and hangs them when I'm sick or just because he wants to. He changes them with absolutely no problems too! 

We save the money from not buying disposables, or putting out extra trash and can use it doing other things with our kids. Using cloth has also opened my life up to a whole new set of people in a community I would never in a million years think good friends could be made. It's been wonderful. I also have had the privilege of working from home for an amazing cloth diaper company from the last year that I truly believe in and has made all the difference in the world when it comes to cloth diapering for me. 

When I started I tried a bunch of brands, and had some issues. I found a brand that worked for me (AppleCheeks) and then those issues were non-exsistant. The only time I ever had a leak was when we had to buy a new washer when our old one died, and I had to play with my detergent amounts, to see how my new washer truly worked ... But as soon as I did, It's been smooth sailing ever since.

I know a lot of people feel they are too busy, they don't want to do the extra load of laundry, or just truly think cloth diapering is gross. That's fine. That's your choice! But if you truly want to save money, and have a diaper on your baby's bottom that isn't a disposable, and that you will never run out of I promise it's worth a shot!

So the answer to the title of this post? "Is cloth diapering for you?" - YES! Cloth Diapering is for everyone. You just have to have to want to make the switch and jump right in! If not, that's alright too - but I promise, it isn't as bad as you think! ;) 

Guest Blog: Back to a routine..

 

Thanks someecards this is exactly me yesterday!

Hey all it's Heidi on this terribly freezing Wednesday. I hope that you are staying warm wherever you are. Yesterday was my daughters first day back to school after the winter break. I was so ready for her to go back. Not because I didn't enjoy her being home or spending time with her, I absolutely did. It almost felt too long to me. It threw everything we have worked towards out the window. 

This is her first year in school and it's full days, it was a big adjustment for all of us. She absolutely loves going and being with her friends, but I find it really takes it out of her. Yesterday she didn't even want to go and was saying she wanted to stay home with me. It made me sad, but I knew she had to go. Once she came home she was happy and was very excited to go back. On Monday evenings she goes back to her school for a language course. She is always thrilled to go because they do fun activities in the gym as well as arts and crafts. Yesterday was a complete no go and she was in tears begging to leave. Of course we took her home and said we will try again next week. I am chalking this up to being exhausted and totally not being back in the swing of things.

Last night before bed I was explaining to her that I may keep her home from school because our temperatures were going to be anywhere  between -35 and -40 Celsius. Well of course that was a HUGE problem, she said "nooooo I really want to go and see my friends". I said okay, if you're really sure then I guess we will get bundled up and go to the bus stop in the morning. When were done having breakfast I check my phone to see an email from the transportation board saying that there was delays and her stop was going to be 40 minutes later then usual. This was fine and gave us some extra play time. Right before we were going to get ready, another email! Now 120 minute delay.

 At this point I said forget it, you're staying home. It really seemed from there on out my children were determined to have the most terrible day. It was non stop screaming, no sharing and an awful time all around. So yes I am looking forward to school tomorrow, as is my daughter. She said multiple times today how much she really wanted to go. I couldn't explain to her enough about the delays for her to actually understand. Let's hope the buses will be on time tomorrow so we can get back to our regular routine and our mostly happy kids.

This cold weather is making us all a little stir crazy, I hope it lets up soon. Thanks for reading, have a great day!! <3 Heidi

Winter Sickness, AGAIN!

It's most definitely winter, not only outside but inside as well. I'm sick, again! This time instead of the flu I had a few weeks ago, I've got a horrible cold. It wouldn't be terribly bad except I now can't hear out of my right ear. That's never fun for anyone, at any given time.

3/6 kids also have the sniffles and are just feeling genuinely icky. What could be better than a big bowl of soup? What about home made Chicken Pot Pie soup?? Oh yes, I decided to make Skinny Taste's Chicken Pot Pie Soup the other night and it was amazing. It's the ultimate comfort food. It's creamy, loaded with veggies and big chunks of chicken.

 If you need some comfort food (who doesn't?) I highly suggest Skinny Tastes's Chicken Pot Pie Soup. My kid's even asked for seconds, and then wanted more the next day for lunch! It was really good, and easy to make! 

I've been doing my diet strictly for 5 days now, even though I started on the 1st (I didn't have a scale to start properly until 5 days ago!) and I have lost 8lbs in those 5 days. I feel amazing (minus this awful cold I'm battling) and I absolutely love how I'm eating now. I changed my diet 100% and I've started working out 20 minutes in the morning, and 20 minutes in the evening. Once the weather warms up I plan to go for runs, and jogs as well but right now that isn't an option in all the ice and freezing -35 temperatures we are having during the day right now.

Because of those awful temperatures we aren't getting out much, which can make a person go a little stir crazy. I've been keeping busy working, working out and making healthy, low cal snacks and treats for myself but I'd really love to go out for some walks, or perhaps a jog. I really can't wait for Spring to come. 

I have a wonderful review and giveaway coming up, have you ever heard of the Baby Shusher? Well, if you haven't you won't want to miss this. I will be reviewing one and giving one away. The baby shusher is a unique product that helps calmly soothe babies to sleep. Head on over to the website to have a little look! Stay tuned!

Day 1 of dieting... Oh what FUN!

Happy New year all! Yesterday I started my new diet. I want to shed all pregnancy weight completely. I haven't in the last 3 babies, so it's time. I don't have a ton of weight to lose but I'm not comfortable with where I'm at right now, and I want to feel better about myself so I've decided to change how I eat and start exercising daily. Yesterday was a bit of a challenge. I cut back on soda, and cut sweets out (besides some healthy snacks I will be introducing myself)  I also made a rule not to snack after 7pm which I hear is bad bad bad for you. So I was a bit overwhelmed yesterday but I got through it. During the day I decided to make a few snacks just to have in the fridge...

I made homemade apple sauce, 2 ingredient cookies and 2 loafs of banana bread. One with a handful of chocolate chips and one with strawberries!

Homemade apple sauce - in the crock pot is literally the easiest thing to make ever. Wash, Peel, and chop up 20 apples. Put 1/4 cup of water in the bottom of crock pot, add apples, top with as much cinnamon as your heart desires and cook on low for 6 hours. Mash, and ENJOY! Yum, so so so delicious and easy. Not to mention the house smells like amazing apples and cinnamon all day.

Then I made 2 ingredient cookies. There's an option to add extra ingredients so I decided to add a small handful of chocolate chips. All this takes? 1 cup rolled oats, 2 bananas mashed... You can add a handful of chocolate chips, nuts, raisins, cranberries.. Whatever you have. Bake on 350 for 15 (I did 13 as my oven is super hot) and enjoy! So good, my kids are now obsessed with these cookies.

 

Cookies all done! Easy, and quick for delicious cookies!

Lastly I had some more bananas left over so I make 2 loafs of banana bread. One with strawberries and one with a handful of chocolate chips (can you tell I miss chocolate already and need juts a little bit?) I used my normal recipe, and added the strawberries/chocolate chips at the end!

 

 2 cups all-purpose flour

1 teaspoon baking soda

1/4 teaspoon salt

1/2 cup butter

3/4 cup brown sugar

2 eggs, beaten  

2 1/3 cups mashed overripe bananas

1. Preheat oven to 350 degrees F. Lightly grease a loaf pan.
2. In a large bowl, combine flour, baking soda and salt. In a separate bowl, cream together butter and brown sugar. Stir in eggs and mashed bananas until well blended. Stir banana mixture into flour mixture; stir just to moisten. Add Chocolate Chips or Strawberries. Pour batter into prepared loaf pan.
3. Bake in preheated oven for 60 to 65 minutes, until a toothpick inserted into center of the loaf comes out clean. Let bread cool in pan for 10 minutes, then turn out onto a wire rack.  
4. This recipe yeilds 1 loaf.

Tonight for dinner I am making Chicken Pot Pie soup from SKINNYTASTE.COM which I couldn't be more excited about. I'm trying a bunch of new recipes from there, and I'll share after! I can't believe the amount of recipes she has on her website, and how easy they all look. Who said eating healthy had to be bland and boring? I'm excited to start eating healthier and work out everyday, day 1 was a complete success lets hope it continues!